Today is a special day for me… It was on this day 3 years ago when I learned that I would become a mother. Every mother remembers the day when a test shows such a long-awaited result. And I, too, remember how I said that I was pregnant, how everybody was crying for joy … And I just had no emotions, because for the 5 years of waiting probably all tears had been wept; such things happen.
It was a long journey to the happiness of being a mother. My greatest gratitude to God and the people who sent me along the right path. Advised me Gryshchenko Clinic-IVF. I am very grateful to doctor Valentyn Parashchuk and the whole team of the Clinic. They all did their best to ensure that everything turned out just fine. A year after my first visit I became pregnant. And it was our victory!!!
For those 5 years before the positive result there had been everything: tears, despair, depression, a lot of hormones taken, extra 15 kg gained and a big question: why? Why everyone around who wants and does not want to become pregnant, except me??? What is wrong with me? I have learnt one thing: if there are questions, there must be is an answer. They just need to be found. So, all of us: me, Doctor Valentyn Parashchuk and the team were searching… Corrected all the details with my body.
A short IVF program was offered. I was ready for anything!!! That was the first anesthesia in my life, and there was hope that everything would be successful! Everything was done correctly by doctors. But the IVF did not work out. There came the day to take a pregnancy test, and the result was negative. Frankly, these were the 3 hardest days in my life. Three days of tears, questions and severe depression. And despair was so deep that everything around seemed to be useless, without any meaning. But thanks God, it lasted for 3 days only. Thanks to the support, we still moved on to the goal. I was offered a hysteroscopy. And there was the reason why it had taken so long. In the middle of the uterus there were a lot of polyps (they could not be seen in ultrasound) which made it impossible for the embryo to settle down. And just imagine, 2 weeks after the hysteroscopy I see the first test in my life with a positive result! I jumped with joy, immediately called doctor Valentyn Parashchuk… But this pregnancy was not destined to last: it only developed for 2 weeks, and that was it … For myself I realized that nature was smarter than us, and we just had to accept it. I could only wait for the next protocol coming 3 months later. Just wait…
But God knows how and when everything should happen… The following month I was pregnant again! It all happened by itself, just like that)))) That was when I did everything I could to ensure that everything would end up well.
And it happened exactly like that!
Since the moment I became a mother, my life has been divided into «before» and «after». And you know, there are not enough words to describe the “AFTER”. Being a mother is the super greatest gift from God! I knew that it was cool, but it turned out that I just did not know what a wonderful feeling it was. With the first cry of my baby everything that I had experienced was gone. It just turned into dust, and the wind blew it in different directions. Now I’m a happy mother. A Lucky Mom! Every day I thank God, doctor Valentyn Parashchuk and everyone who was with me through all that long way!!!